How to be Confident?

On 27 May, 2007 By With 3 Comments

    Last night,one of my friends called me and asked me this question:How to be confident? I was confused at that time.Then she told me sadly that she was so  nervous in a job interview that she did not get the job.I tried to comfort her ,I said a lot of nice thing about her but did not get her smile.

  Someone said confidence is the most important essence to success.Once you lack of confidence,you get used to considering things in a pessimistic way.Whenever you meet difficult problems ,you choose to give up instead of having a try.I can totally understand this feeling ,because I am also lack of confidence.I know this problem very well but I do not know how to solve it.It is very easy to say:Do not worry,just be confident! However, it is very difficult to practise.

    I always admire those people who are very confident in any situation.How can they do that? Can you tell me ?

3 thoughts on “How to be Confident?”

  1. Soyoung_Jung says:
    May 29, 2007 at 10:14 pm

    I also lack of confidence like your friend and you, and question how can we have a lot of confidence in any time and any where?

  2. Youngae_kim says:
    May 30, 2007 at 4:19 pm

    I also lack of self – confidence, so I try to improve it, however it is very hard. Thus, I totally understand your friend.

  3. miji_lee says:
    June 10, 2007 at 11:51 pm

    whenever I have to do something difficult, I just accept it by thinking it’s my job, then it is less stressful than you agony it.

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