Yesterday, I and my friend talked about our marriages. Exactly, we discussed how we can find our husbands. We had totally different opinions.

First of all, in case of me, I believe my destiny, in other words, I and my husband can meet coincidently and naturally.  Conversely, my friend said that she will use some companies which are in charge of providing her with men in a wealthy and governing class. I contradicted her opinion right away cause if she will have a sort of artificial meeting with a guy, she will be getting to just focus on the appearances of the guy such as his job, body, face, and socio-ecomonic status rather than his personalities. Furthermore, I added that the personalities of my husband or the chemistry between him and me will be much more important aspects of my marriage life after getting married. From my experiece like blind dates, it turned out that artificial meetings will prevent people from seeing the sincere insides of the people. Despite of my contradiction, she insisted on that you should use this way in that it is extremely difficult for you to find your Mr.Right ,and she gave me advice; you need to be more realistic.

To tell the truth, no matter how people think about my opinion, I want to insist on that marriage be all about love which is formed naturally, not socio-economic things.