Marriage is important in that this can affect someone’s life fully. We live together with our wife or husband about 40 years or more if we marry. Then what is happy marriage life and what about our country’s marriage tradition? At first we have to know that there is no perfect in everything because we are human being. Happy marriage life is very individual but when we ask for “Are you happy with your marriage life?”, they usually say no. That’s because they were not prepared well about marriage. And our marriage tradition also gives one hand to in that our parents push to ideal marriage for parents not a child and making lack of experience without dating with other partner.

           These two effects are combined and give a fueled effect on marriage so we become not satisfied with our marriage. I’m not also experienced person. I can hardly say what makes you happy or not because it is very subjective thing but marriage should be well prepared before starting at least three things, money, parents support, attitude which prepare for loving other.

           Money takes very big part in our life. We cannot live without it if you are not bagger. So why money is important and has to be well prepared is much related with nature for surviving. If you don’t have any way to survive, marriage is important? It cannot be because you have to survive first. But we are more intelligent than this. We don’t usually satisfy about just eating and sleeping. We need more to enjoy our mental happiness. The way satisfying your wife or husband will be very simple if we bear in mind our basic nature. So for this reason you have to be well prepared the money at first for your happy marriage.

           There is one tragedy story in France, one handsome and beautiful couple’s story. They toughly and whole-heartedly love each other but by the destiny God gave to them they have to promise to meet again in the heaven. That is Romeo and Juliet story. You can see in this story that if parents is against each other how destroyable the thing will be. In this story they died but we cannot in real. So this is very natural to be admitted by two side’s parents.

           This is very ridiculous to have a marriage before learning to love other first. This is the first step and very basic step for every relationship. If you’re just stay in selfish and don’t care other, my question is, what marriage means to you? You can live whole your life without involved in other people’s life. The partner is not your mom or daddy. They can love you after confirming your firm love. So you have to learn to love other first.

           There are a lot of other reasons to happy marriage life. But I personally think that it have to be just mandatorily for the basic component. It’s not all marry your wife. Really tough one is in after you marry. Cheers.