Marriage is important in that this can affect someone’s life fully. We live together with our wife or husband about 40 years or more if we marry. Then what is happy marriage life and what about our country’s marriage tradition? At first we have to know that there is no perfect in everything because we are human being. Happy marriage life is very individual but when we ask for “Are you happy with your marriage life?”, they usually say no. That’s because they were not prepared well about marriage. And our marriage tradition also gives one hand to in that our parents push to ideal marriage for parents not a child and making lack of experience without dating with other partner.

           These two effects are combined and give a fueled effect on marriage so we become not satisfied with our marriage. I’m not also experienced person. I can hardly say what makes you happy or not because it is very subjective thing but marriage should be well prepared before starting at least three things, money, parents support, attitude which prepare for loving other.

           Money takes very big part in our life. We cannot live without it if you are not bagger. So why money is important and has to be well prepared is much related with nature for surviving. If you don’t have any way to survive, marriage is important? It cannot be because you have to survive first. But we are more intelligent than this. We don’t usually satisfy about just eating and sleeping. We need more to enjoy our mental happiness. The way satisfying your wife or husband will be very simple if we bear in mind our basic nature. So for this reason you have to be well prepared the money at first for your happy marriage.

           There is one tragedy story in France, one handsome and beautiful couple’s story. They toughly and whole-heartedly love each other but by the destiny God gave to them they have to promise to meet again in the heaven. That is Romeo and Juliet story. You can see in this story that if parents is against each other how destroyable the thing will be. In this story they died but we cannot in real. So this is very natural to be admitted by two side’s parents.

           This is very ridiculous to have a marriage before learning to love other first. This is the first step and very basic step for every relationship. If you’re just stay in selfish and don’t care other, my question is, what marriage means to you? You can live whole your life without involved in other people’s life. The partner is not your mom or daddy. They can love you after confirming your firm love. So you have to learn to love other first.

           There are a lot of other reasons to happy marriage life. But I personally think that it have to be just mandatorily for the basic component. It’s not all marry your wife. Really tough one is in after you marry. Cheers.

           All the stuff is not going well and struggling for whatever. Sometimes because of love and sometimes because of our identity, we 20’s prepare for the life of future. Someone might say that “What should we have concerned?” is very useless question. But actually there is one thing we have to do in our 20’s. That’s falling. Parents always talk to us that you have to be perfect not suffering the failure but they also have fall down and stand up again. Why they talk to us like that? That’s very simple. Because they don’t know how to express love to their daring they have trouble to educate rightly. We 20’s have to suffer more painful and tearing agony because of three reasons. It is the seed for flowering and it can prevent from suicide and it can be chain to our offspring that they also be the good seed for society.

           Seed for flowering is very rhetorical expression. So I explain it again. It means that failure gives us foothold for our future success. This is very necessary because actually no one can succeed without watering the seeds. Thomas Edison is very good example of this. Scientist usually before they pronounce their achievement had the thousand of different attempts. Edison is just perfect model of scientist. He made bulb which gives us that beautiful blessing. By his marvelous achievement, we students can feel the angel’s bliss by studying at midnight.

           We can hear the suicide news which was the monster at our same age. They are just loser because they didn’t know and could not endure the chaos which every other twenties suffer the same. They didn’t know the awesome truth that we have to enjoy our failing in our twenties. If they do not go through this thing, they might kill themselves in their thirties and fourties which will make more tragedy because that time they almost marry and have a family to burden. So this is very eminent to have an encumbered in our ages.

           Last thing is the chain effect. We can give our wonderful experience to our child. Human being is very same and not evolved at all. We just circle the chain and give a trait to our child naturally and have an honor of inheriting our former virtues. This is more glorious than having the crown of king in the U.K. we have to cherish it and give our daring this bunch of love.

           Twenties is very dangerous times. We can do everything by having the right to do whatever. For example, we can stress out by smoking the one thousand cigarettes. We have to grateful for our parents worrying because they gives us whole body to endure the chaos

You can easily find the person who uses the smart phone on the street. And As much as this people, there are also a lot of people who hide their emotion and feeling on the street, That’s gay. Gay right is very essential issue in U.S. because they are at the increasing their number and also culture is changed from insisting same to individual character. This is like black people’s history before 1960s. Historically, black people was looked down by the white and suffered so many unfair thing at the bus and shop by not selling a drinking. They recognized it by several incident and struggle for their right by strong leadership like Martin Luther King and finally got it. This picture seems very same with gay. Now they are recognizing their own right.

           So my question is that “Do we have right to discriminate them?” because they are physically same person with us and don’t hurt anything to us. They live with us and breath with even we don’t recognize them. But problem is in the word ‘hurt’. This is so subjective and individual word to understand. Therefore, Gay is socially and individually and in the health harmful.

So they have to be discriminated in our society.

           The fact that gay is also the same person is no doubt but make very bad atmosphere in the society. Society is easily compared with the human body. We human society are like the organ in the body. Guess what happen if they fight for the unbeneficial thing. This is totally useless fight. What they have when they finally get the legal right of gay? Nothing special. They officially solo but actually they have marriage and enjoying the life fully. Is this really important?

           I also agree that gay is very special sense in several field than us. They see the thing we cannot see. But the thing is that we actually psychologically feel the danger. They might say that we only like the gay and don’t harm or hurt any other persons. But how can they assure that they don’t like the non-gay. Love is very sensitive feeling and it’s very difficult fully understand in our whole life. How can they confirm that they cannot love other person who is not gay.

           Last is that it’s very harmful in our sanitation. When we suppose that they love each other, it’s very natural thing to have intercourse with each other. But when the gay sleep, they have to use annul because they don’t have other place to enjoy in our part. It might cause the HIV and if it infect non-gay person by their identity problem, it might be disaster. Surely in this context I suppose that not all gays have firm identity about themselves.

           There is no grave without any reason. Every person, every society has their own profit and struggle to get. I am one of them. For me, to admit the gay right is not profit. Why should I have to do that? If they don’t give any reason, I might not be changed. And also it’s the same to persons who live this society straight.

        Night falls silently and only moonlight illuminate what’s going on. There is sound “Ah woo”.With this, in the unexpected place, one by one, wolf comes out. They have very eager eyes and you can feel the hunger in these. If you were there, you can read their mind “Now time for enjoy the party”. And hunting object is the girl.

        Nowadays we can easily find the article about raping and other sexual stuff in the internet news. This is frequent subject because it attracts the man very easily. But this also true the fact that girl become more bravery than before about exposing their body and becoming more social problem. So what can we do about this? If we say that girl needs to be more woman of virtue, they might say that we are infringing their right. And if we just leave it alone, it just becomes the social problem and sometimes using for the tool to hide other problem like political scandal. But my answer is that they should be more careful about wearing sexual clothes because of three reasons. It’s very dangerous to take a risk of raping and it also harmful about real beauty and it cause generation gap between old and young.

           Like my hook’s description, man is very like a wolf. They’re usually instinctive and impulsive compared with girls. We are dangerous and simple animal. If girl learn to control, we become very tractable. Related with this, girl’s short skirt is provocative for man. To exposing their legs and walking around at the night is insane behavior. It just like saying, “please rape me”. I’m not only talking about the short skirts, all very sexual clothes. I’ve never seen this kind of clothes in other country except the girl is prostitute or clubber. This is one of the reasons our country’s raping rate is so high. So if you don’t want to have potential of raping, try to avoid this kind of clothes.

           And it also ruins the real beauty. Real beauty is not far from our ordinary life; actually in the mundane life we can find the real beauty. It came from the mind and their real appearance. It only can be bloom when they confront real them and caring about their identity. If girl get on sexy dress, it just remind of one-night stand partner. If they have time to wearing and caring about the sexy costume, it would be better caring about their mind and natural beauty.

           Last is generation gap. It is very natural to have gap between generations. They, the old, also know we have a gap and try to narrow this but it’s hard to accept to wearing this kind of clothes because in their age they don’t have this. I heard from one old guy saying, “tut,tut what’s going on to our society ”. We cannot just regard this of one old fool’s worrying. They already anticipate that how this causes the bad effect to the girl. So they don’t make the short skirts or provocative clothes. If we don’t wear the sexy clothes, it doesn’t affect to our life at all. Why don’t you give up for our social unity?

           Girl might say that they have right to do whatever they want. That’s true. Man wears the clothes whatever and they also have the same right. But it’s when they harm themselves. Man is considers as the animal. We are dangerous. If they don’t have the power to control man properly, they need to stop. But I don’t mean to complain about invention of sexy clothes. I intend to propose that why don’t you wearing sexy clothes in the appropriate situation like anniversary and party.

Mouth is very important organ in the part of our body. We can eat and also talk through this. In between two, what I want to talk today is that later one, talk. We human being cannot live without talking, which can express our emotion and feeling. Most harsh punishment, in my opinion, is that the person who did the crime become separated from our society and making living alone forever. He might become more and more crazy or foolish because he cannot share his idea and feeling and other stuff which is related with human social behavior. Like this, we cannot take apart our language and social relation. Moreover, we can even think it is the same in that we don’t need our language if there is no social relationship.

           There might be a lot of problem about this but one of the major issue and incident by our slippery talk is come from politician because their task requires social responsibility. Especially words is came from the president this is more problematic. Current president LEE MUNG BAK is good example and whoever becomes a president, he or she should be careful about his statement. There are three reasons for this. Because he is the prime representative of our nation and by his words it brings up big adversary effect on his policy and it cannot put it back once spit, he or she should not talk heedlessly.

           Everybody knows that president is at the top of our country’s decision making. By him, policy, which can fluctuate our country up and down, is decided. Not by him exactly but senator and house but we have to know that he also came from the party. But by one his slippery mistake in verbal, it causes tremendous effect on his policy. For example, President LEE planed to do the 4-river policy. Surely, there was reproach about this policy because policy is just one of the choices we might have in. But by his words, “This policy will make our environment more better”, our citizen, in a slang, pissed up. Why they piss up? This is very clear. Even the dog in the street might notice that this is very bad effect on our environment. That means even very uneducated person might know this is not true. He should have refrained his words rather talk foolishly about this policy’s defect. It looks like he intent people to angry.

           About talking about representative of our country, it is eminent he is our country’s face. In the international society, he is the person who represents our country. If he fails to talk properly, we have big damage on our country’s image. After a trip for FTA(Free trade agreement) with U.S, there was article about this. He was applaud and welcomed by U.S’s senator and house unanimously. He said in the U.S house that this is very thankful thing about fast process of FTA paper. Important thing is we have to understand about talking related with situation. On a flip side, you can understand this that I’m very glad that your country’s support about my tyranny and I will keep submissive to your country. He’d better not talking at all in every place. He just ruin our reputation and he want to be a slave to other country. He can do, but not our citizen.

           Last thing is that he can put it back what he spilt already. There is the word in our country that “You can’t put it back your water already spilt”. That means you have responsibility about your word so be careful and always refrain before you give a words. If the president gives a word it can’t put it back seriously. President is that kind of position everyone looks upon and top of social position in democracy country. If he is sober and psychologically wholesome, how dare he can say without deep pondering. He usually controls the press after he says some words. But we are not idiot. It’s more hard to get back to past which is not saying anything because nowadays the word is proliferating like an ant. Anyone cannot avoid internet power. We have AGURA, which is social discussion centre in the internet, and other stuff to communicate our idea in the virtual world. He definitely needs to be more prudent about his speech or address.

           Historically, the great man has many famous words. Even Steven Jobs, who was Apple corp. president and has died recently, made touchable and impressive words and careful about his words. He was businessman. Our president was the same, he also was businessman. And additional he has name of president in our country now. What he have to learn? That’s prudent, especially his mouth.

 It’s like a fever pitch. It blows all our nations like a tornado. We hardly get out of this from when we were young to adult. That’s English. English is more and more powerful to influence its power in international society. If we travel, if we can use English, there’s no problem except that country is far from the civilization. But I don’t agree about choosing English for our second language because of history and harmful effect to our own language and losing soul.

           You might know about history of Roman Empire. That country’s influence is so huge and wide that even in Asia knew about them. They had very high technology and extreme power in military force. In this era, Roman language, Latin was the standard of education. That means everybody want to learn Latin. But they were fallen down and separated with several countries. Now who learn Latin? There are very few persons who want to learn this language. Comparing this fact with English, we never know when they fall and crush down. Especially, China is growing very fast and making the America’s position down than before. This time is not good to choose the English as a second language.

           To choose the English as a second language makes our country’s language ‘Han-Gul’ in danger. If this law is acting, almost every persons choose English first because ‘Han-gul’ is not popular language in international society. Surely it hurt our language very severely.

           Final reason we should not choose English as a second language is that ‘Han-gul’ has our nation’s soul in it. Language has been developed in step by step from the ancient. Before we born, we used and sophisticated it. For example, King Se Jong, which is the king at Jo Sun era, made it first for ordinary people to help to understand and talk easily. Surely, it’s very scientific also there is generous mind in there and has the soul of that time’s idea because it was made base on our people’s verbal language. How can we abandon our ancestor’s wisdom because of our temporary profit. This is totally nonsense.

           Other nations, especially European country, even don’t choose English as a second language. They keep their language up in spite of pressure of benefit from English. In some respect, language can be the invisible war between nations. To survive in this war, we need to sophisticate our language rather to concentrating English as a second language

        We have a place that we spend so much time. This place is the place we experience at least one time in our life. That is subway. We can’t deny that so called underground or subway gives us convenient life. But manner in there is not going with our development. We should keep our manner in the subway because of morality and international image and dignity.

         It’s very human nature that if we beat someone, that person beat you back. Surely, we are not childish to act like that because we have another way to prohibit bad behavior by law and sometimes our hospitality like ocean but there is tacit rule if you are educated person. It is important not to cross that line. In the subway, that line is quite talk if you have a call. For example, you’re reading in the subway but besides you, someone keeps irritating you by loud phone call. You might piss up because you might think that’s not his place. Like this, public place is very entangled with subtle string; that’s not my place but also you too so it’s hard to guess what they think at my besides. Therefore, you should have more careful in behaving at the subway.

         As I say about second, it fall down our international image. If you’re foreign, you easily find the example. My school professor Gord Sellar talks to us that he feels anger in the subway several times. Hitting other person’s shoulder is very common mistake we’re doing. When it happens, it’s not tough thing to apologize to victim. This kind of small thing can ruin our country’s reputation. If they live in our country long, they might understand how much our citizen has kindness to other, even they are foreign. But they don’t know this fact because he/she might have first visit and culture difference. This is so basic thing and don’t need any effort to do it. If we do our kindness in this small place, it will affect very wide than we expect. Why should we not to do that?

         Last thing is our dignity. To disturb other person’s activity by my selfish behavior in the subway is debasing our dignity by myself. There is research from psychological analyst that we have five step of maturity. In there, at the top, it shows us that our ultimate happiness come from self-satisfaction. You don’t need to find that far. Actually that’s on your nose. You can get your ultimate happiness in this small thing, manner.

         In the society, everything needs to be touched by our hand; we produce everything even that is place, not a material. That means we have ability to change by our own hand. What do you think about joining in this small but wonderful cornerstone to make our society’s atmosphere better?

         Nowadays, FTA(Free Trade Agreement) is hot topic when it come to related with political scandal. Each party, Hannara and Minju party, is conflicting seriously because it will be very influence to next election. Hannara party want to pass the law quickly and opposite block it by all the reaction they can do. Personally, I didn’t deny FTA’s necessity. But as a politician, who represents our civilian profit and has a social responsibility, they are not doing well their job. FTA need to be readjusted because this is not equal agreement and our civilian doesn’t wants it and it’s not profitable.

         In the animal kingdom, there is rank between them. For example, tiger is very high rank in the food chain and they eat deer or other animal. But in human society, this is a little bit different. We can be exceptional by talented talking at the negotiation. Language is so wonderful creation we human made that it sometimes change from groom situation to shining future. There is an words in our country, “By one words, you can pay back all your owing”. That means how much the word is important and can do. It shows us how we can go through our future block. When we apply this to our society, we can negotiate with powerful America equally. But this FTA treatment is very unfair in the several provisions. For example, ISD(Investor-State Disment) provision is very unequal in that we cannot have right to suit about infringement of our company’s profit by their government. Nation means that they have their own right to negotiate and make a decision by themselves. We cannot call ourselves as a nation because we don’t have right.

            In above paragraph, we talked about unfairness in the negotiation. But our civilians actually don’t want to make a deal with America. In the international society, we need to broaden our range in the variety field. But government misses the target. Negotiation need to be targeting China, not America. American is very big and powerful country. They are also the leading nation in the international society. But we are so relied to America so if America crushed down, we might also crushed more severely than America because we are smaller country. So we need to divide our reliance to several countries and it was not an America.

         Finally it’s not beneficial to our economy. There is timing when we do act policy or even behavior. We plan to act so many things before we have a talks. For example, at four-river policy we spend 14 trillion won. This money is tremendous blood by taxing on our civilian. Our country has to concentrate to finish the four-river policy and other thing we already set in the business. In domestic economy chaos, we don’t have any vigor to avert our eyes on FTA without sorting our inner problem. We cannot act like octopus.

        It’s impossible to make perfect government because each individual has different aspect. But, we are witnessing so many crushing-down nations in the international world. And they, Korean Republican, are acting like ‘Timing is now’ and propagate us to act for their profit, not ordinary people. Everybody knows they are corrupted but we are not foolish at all. They have to know that if they still act like swine in the mud, next country which goes bankrupt will be us.

         From ancient to now, human being have kept struggled to acquire what they want. Sometimes it was war and sometimes by other tactics. Food was major causes of this battle but nowadays it changed a little bit different with before. When we think about the image of battle, you can conjure up sword first and you can develop this idea to nuke weapon. But actually this is not true. In fact, we are fighting with pen and paper. So if we want to survive in this tough era, we have to study and our country’s competence is quite dubious. Korean student should study more hard because of international competence and their moral maturity and for the happiness of parents.

First of all, International competence is extremely high in this era. All countries are actually in danger and very carefully adjust this problem. For example, President Obama, who is American president, addresses urgent need of improving America’s education. He refers to our country and India for fever peak of education and he told that they need to learn from ours, But actually this is not true. We cannot rest our mind in a peace because when we compare the total hours and efficiency of studying, we lack very seriously of studying hours compared with them.

Next, we have to study more because it improves our mental maturity. In the bible there is words related to this, “Man cannot live only by bread”. This originally means that we need strong belief to our god but we also can apply this general truth to studying. We cannot only live with basic human nature like eating, sleeping and toilet thing. We need higher moral value to live happily and that will be study.

Finally, I cannot go without telling our parents. Our parents are the one who give a birth to us. Surely I cannot say that they only think study of being a good child. They unconditionally love us in spite of our lacking. However if you miss it in your life they inescapably might be disappointed because they know that this is very easy way to live in this brutal society. Especially, our former religion was Confusion. I dare say that we respect the old more than other country and we consider the best when we doing well to our parents. In this society, our country has more burden about being a good son or daughter. If that way is studying, we have to do more than other country.

Someone might say that studying hard is not a only way to become success. But other way is like a rugged road. We can hardly anticipate anything. And in this high competitive world, studying hard doesn’t give any harm to our country student. “Studying hard and survive in this cruel battle”

That can shed light on us our future.

          Shaa – you might hear that sound everyday. This sound looks like a waterfall. It pierces all your distress and agony came from your mind. Sometimes like a magic, and sometimes like a mint, it heals you wholly and gives refreshment. This sound is not come from special place but just from the toilet. Toilet is one that can’t live without, even just one day. We don’t usually notice it how precious this is but there is more surprise thing we didn’t notice. That’s toilet paper. Without this, we can’t come out from the door with enjoyment and relaxed mind. For this reason, toilet paper takes a very important part in our life. I cannot deny the fact that our school well equipped toilet paper but the quality of it is so awful that our ass is screaming of its brutality. This terrible thing, quality of toilet paper, need to be improved because it goes against human basic right and also affects our student attitude in class and give danger to our school’s reputation.

           There are three things our human nature can’t avoid. That is Eating, toilet thing and sleeping. If we are deficient one of these, we become very stressed. Just imagine that without food and sleep. You can barely move and finally will die. Think about without releasing this filth. I can’t imagine this terrible thing. This is very dirty thing but necessary thing for our living. This is like a foot. We treat it badly in spite of using it every day very cruelly. We have to give better treatment for our precious hole and for this, the quality of toilet paper is necessary.

          If our toilet paper is not sufficiently leveled, our small part will be hurt. We can endure some pain, as we grow up, but there are some parts we can’t tolerate. That part is this, asshole. We even can’t walk. Especially, to the student who mainly study with sitting at the desk long hours it is same word with ‘Go to hell’. He or she might can feel torturing every min and even per second.

         To improve the quality of the toilet paper can actually give our school’s reputation higher. We don’t need to seek for our school reputation in enormous thing like school system. School has to know that student is very simple and sensitive apes. They impressed very easily by small thing and improving toilet paper also becomes one of them.

         There is a word, “If you can’t avoid, just enjoy it”. We cannot avoid every day pooing. This is very dirty and avoided word but you have to know that there is eternal truth in there. After we cherish and reexamine what we ignore, we can be step forward to higher maturity in our soul. And That step may be begin with this small devil.