Over the past several decades, it has been prosperous era for skinny girls. As a person who is not skinny, I have to say something about the concept of beauty. It may show that I am telling this beacause I am not a “It girl”. Yes, it could be true and somewhat is right. If I don’t have any problem with that, probably I won’t mention it ,but most of any complaints and counter-opinions are formd from minority or the opressed from any reasons,so I want to make my point to the abusurd idea of what beauty is.
Do you know the fact that there are ony three sizes in clothings? There are size 44, 55 ,and 66. What I want to ask you is do those sizes fit into every korean women? No, it is not true and it can not be true. There are many many different sizes and figures of people live in korea who are beatiful enough. It implies that they can not categorize into just 3 options. However, fashion industry and media enforce korean women be like Barbie. Barbie is not a human. It is just a doll which is for playing for kids. To be like a Baibie doesn’t make any sense to beauty.It is not a real beauty. Nevertheless, you want to become like it and love it like a religion.
What you should focus on first is finding own beauty. It is not a whole idea of seaching your charmingness by losing your weight or shaping your body like tooth pick. It could be a way to chiesel yourself. It could be a secondary way ,but not the way! There are many diverse ways you become a beautiful person by filling yourself in the way that reading and having profitable habbits like joining wine club or studying other languages. Then second thing you need to do is write a letter or use any other sources that you can reach to the evil fashion indusrty and media that make you get suffered. Make a new concept of beauty and let them know size in 77 or 88 are also beautiful.Take an action! Maybe you have a little power against giant copanies or broadcasting centers ,but don’t haveto be afraid of them. You are not alone who don’t like them. Lump your power together and make the critical voice and let them realize they are wrong over and over. Everything can be changed ,so Social concepts too.
It might be tough to break the idea of routined beauty,but if you are so sure about it and want to change, do it, just do it. Make sure that you belive in yourself that you are beautiful no matter what other sknny people say and keep trying to be attractive not just in pysical things but for your real inner beauty. That’s the point. Inner beauty and the power from your inner side that can make changes to anything.